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ABC NEWS March 19, 1993

Produced by Janis Tomlin

(Slight additions were made for clarification purposes.)

BARBARA WALTERS: I'm Barbara Walters and this is 20/20.

                                                                                    

ANNOUNCER: From ABC News, around the world the stories that touch your life, with Hugh Downs and Barbara Walters, this is 20/20. Tonight, the dramatic climax to 20/20's epic series, THE ORPHANS OF ROMANIA. Their story moved America and inspired an individual crusade.

JOHN UPTON: For God's sake, let me, let me help these kids.

ANNOUNCER: A determined American fights for the forgotten children.

Mr. UPTON: They're kept like little reptiles in an aquarium.

ANNOUNCER: Thousands still trapped in hopeless squalor, frequently abused.

TOM JARRIEL, ABC News: Why is he tied? Huh? Why is he tied?

ANNOUNCER: John Upton   is their hope for a new life. He rescued some of their friends. Now they beg for themselves.

ROMANIAN CHILD: Johnny, I go to America?

Mr. UPTON: ( to Romanian translator) How do you say "I'll try"?

ANNOUNCER: Then the road to a new world, new sensations and a reunion with old friends. Stay tuned.

WALTERS: From the very beginning it was a story that moved America deeply- the wretched plight of the orphans of Romania. We followed their story for three years, returning five times to expose their desperate situation, and each time the response from Americans was overwhelming. You took all of these children into your hearts and some of them into your homes. But what of the tens of thousands left behind? Did world outrage make any difference in their lives?

DOWNS: Well, tonight, one man who was so moved by our broadcast that he took matters into his own hands. His story is the final episode in what has become 20/20 most inspirational series. Against all odds, including government bureaucracy and mind-boggling logistics, this one American spent the past two years trying to bring some of these children to America because, as Tom Jarriel is about to show you, not much has changed for the forgotten children of Romania.

TOM JARRIEL  This is Romania three years after the world was put on notice that tens of thousands of children were being warehoused in substandard orphanages. Children here are still crowded into cold metal cribs. In this orphanage alone there are 800 children under the age of five, and every day more newborns arrive. Despite the outcry from the western world, despite the efforts of thousands of Americans to adopt these kids, the problem is worse than ever. There are currently more than 80,000 children still living in orphanages and medieval institutions across Romania, trapped by the bureaucracy.

JOHN UPTON: The Romanian government has put these kids on the back burner.However they want me to do it, I'll do it, but for God's sake, let me -let me help these kids.

JARRIEL: John Upton is an unlikely candidate as a champion for Romania's unwanted children. At 36, the EMMY Award winning filmmaker was living the American dream in San Diego with his wife Suzanne and their three healthy children. His world revolved around luxury cars, the country club, and a residence in an affluent neighborhood.

Mr. UPTON: I grew up as a poor kid in South Jersey, achieved success and thought I had everything under control. And then all of a sudden I see some kids on television and my life totally changes.

JARRIEL: The television screen intruded into Upton's comfortable life in October 1990, as he watched 20/20's report, "Shame of a Nation” on the so-called "unsalvageable" children of Romania. As image after image flashed by Upton spotted the face of one youngster who seemed to personify everything that was wrong- 12-year-old Elena Rostas, with one leg grotesquely twisted over her head.

Mr. UPTON: I saw Elena and I saw the way that she scooted around on her bottom, and I just had an overwhelming feeling to try to do something to help her, to get her out. I started pacing the floor and my wife said to me, ”You're going over there, aren't you?" and I said, “I have to."

JARRIEL: How soon after were you in Romania?

  Mr. UPTON: Four days after the broadcast

  JARRIEL: He made his way to a remote corner of northwest Romania to the town of Sighetu Marmatiei. This is the institution that propelled John Upton into action…a cold, concrete, prison-like building where 216 children live. The kids here have been declared "unsalvageable” by the Romanian government because of physical or mental disabilities. The sign over the door is blunt -"Hospital for Irrecoverable Children. Upton spent almost six weeks here in Romania back in 1990 getting to know the children at Sighetu.

Mr. UPTON: The first day was overwhelming. The first day, the thing that overpowered me was the stench, then the misery, and then the need. It's something that I can't describe.

JARRIEL: He videotaped the children, hoping families back in San Diego might consider adopting them, but his main goal was to find Elena's parents to obtain permission to bring her to the U.S. for medical treatment. Day after day, Upton was sent on wild-goose chases by the former head of the institution.

Mr. UPTON: The old director was giving me wrong addresses. He didn't want any of these kids out. He was probably thinking it was great, 'cause I'm in this little car driving in these little gypsy villages. It was like a little bit of a nightmare. It was like a big nightmare, as a matter of fact. Finally, after six weeks my wife said, "John, you have to come home, you know. How long are you going to stay there!"

JARRIEL: Unwilling to come back empty-handed, Upton turned his attention to Anna Ostas. Blind since birth, she has spent her entire life at Sighetu. Within a week, Upton arrived in San Diego with 15-year-old Anna. What started out as a rescue for Elena back in 1990 would soon turn into a crusade. Upton began showing the videotape he shot at Sighetu Marmatiei to couples in San Diego, a sad line-up of hopeful faces. One by one, families willing to provide foster homes selected children off the tape.

Mr. UPTON: I'm not an adoption agency, I'm not a placement agency. I'm not a social worker. I'm not an expert. All I know is, is that people call me all the time and say, "John, if you can get me an older child that's handicapped -I'll give him a place to live.

JARRIEL: Eleven-year-old Izidor is one of only five children who made it to the U.S. as a result of Upton's videotape crusade. The young boy quickly began his own campaign to get Upton to return to Romania to rescue the friends he had left behind.

Mr. UPTON: Izidor doesn't take no for an answer. Every time he'd see me, "Well what about Isabella, Hilde, and what about Cristina? Why can't you help them?" What did Al Pacino say in Godfather III? "Just when you thought you were out, they pull you back in." These kids pull me back in. I can't get out. Because you saw the kids in there.

JARRIEL: Upton became obsessed with bringing out more children. He had located more than 20 families who had agreed to take in kids from Sighetu. He was also determined to bring out Elena, the little girl with the twisted leg who had started him on this mission, but by now Romania adoptions were virtually shut down. According to newly passed law, only children on an official list could be adopted. The list is compiled by orphanage directors who livelihoods depend on keeping the cribs filled. Only 200 of the 80,000 children had been put on the list as available for adoption.

Working alone in a cluttered office in Southern California, Upton began looking for a legal way around the adoption roadblocks. He found one. He discovered children could leave Romania for medical treatment in the United States. He could bypass the restrictive adoption process by obtaining visas, passports, and permission from the parents. After two years, he was ready to attempt an elaborate rescue. His plan began in Hungary, the border closest to the institution at Sighetu Marmatiei. [interviewing] Why the flag John?

Mr. UPTON: Tom, we need to put this flag up here when get through the border. Otherwise they could detain us for hours.

JARRIEL: Yeah? So the impression is to make it look like an official entourage.

Mr. UPTON: Exactly. And that's what it's going to look like

JARRIEL: The border between Hungary and Romania is jammed with traffic. We concealed our camera while Upton told Romanian border authorities he was on an official mercy mission.

Mr. UPTON: The officials here are suspicious. Incredulous a lot of the time. “What are you doing here! Why? For these kids, why?"  They have no context for this.

JARRIEL: Upton clears the first hurdle. They let him into the country.

Mr. UPTON: Thank you.

JARRIEL: He leads his little motorcade across the Romanian border and heads for the institution at Sighetu Marmatiei. Six a.m....Under the cover of darkness, our arrival at the gate of Sighetu had been precisely planned. Security was lax at this hour. We wanted to see how the children lived when outsiders weren't expected. [to Upton] It's morning, they should be just waking up?

Mr. UPTON: Yeah.

JARRIEL: They sleep two to a bed on urine-soaked sheets.

Mr. UPTON: Tom, I could empty this room. We have foster families. All these kids need medical treatment.

JARRIEL: In room after room we found children clearly in need of medical care, their bodies emaciated, some restrained in straitjackets.

Mr. UPTON: This place is not suitable for animals, let alone for children.

JARRIEL: In the corner upstairs we found a little boy tied to a frigid pipe.

Mr. UPTON: (asking the nurse) What's this?

JARRIEL: Why is he tied? Huh? Why is he tied?

Mr. UPTON: Look at his arm. His hands are like ice.

JARRIEL: Despite the aid that has poured into this place form western charities since our last report, not much has changed here. In our first report, nothing symbolized the hopeless plight of these children more than the prison-like caged room where they were fed, bathed, and detained for most of the day. [ on camera] This September, in an effort to change the image of this place, they replace the steel bars with clear glass windows. The irony of this improvement? You can see what's going on in this room even better now.

Mr. UPTON: They're kept like little reptiles in an aquarium. Instead of coming to America, they stay here. This is their life. This is it. There's no heat. It's cold. I'm cold now. My hands are cold. But there's no heat.

JARRIEL: The children's tattered clothing does not keep out the chill. This little boy's frail body was no match for the cold. We spotted Elena, the little girl who triggered Upton's rescue mission to Romania two years ago. She's now 15 years old. Her condition has deteriorated dramatically since Upton last saw her.

Mr. UPTON: (looking at Elena, who is screaming, and upset.) This place has taken a toll on her.

JARRIEL: She just smashed her head into the wall.

Mr. UPTON: She just smashed her head, she's afraid, she's flinching. It breaks my heart, because two years ago I was holding her, I was touching her, but she's petrified now. Her mother wanted money from me to take this kid out. I searched for Elena’s  mother for two years. I'm losing this kid. I should have been able to take this kid out two years ago. I would like to just to tell the parents no, you've abandoned this child, who are you to tell me I can't have this child?

Mr. UPTON: (entering another room) This is where, like, my pack lives. These are the kids that are really with it mentally, kids that want out.

JARRIEL He's like, friendly uncle he calls them by name and they remember him, the man from America who is their, best hope for a new life. They know he can reunite them with friends who Upton has already gotten out.

Mr. UPTON: This is Christina Babushi.

Mr. UPTON: (points to a child)  Marin  Moldovan.

JARRIEL: Marin is proving to be Upton's biggest worry on this trip. He has been assured the boy's father, a gypsy, had at last been located, but the address was wrong. Upton continues to employ a Romanian doctor to search full-time for Marin’s father, knowing the odds are against him.

Mr. Upton: It's a series of impossibilities, and we just deal with one after another. It takes a lot of time, it takes a lot of money, it takes a lot of frustration, a lot of hitting that wall and then saying, "Hey, now what do we do?"

JARRIEL: Time is his enemy. Everything is taking longer than expected. He knows the Romanian authorities might try to stop him at any moment.

DOWNS When we come back, the dramatic conclusion of John Upton's personal crusade. Will his determined efforts to rescue the children succeed, and in the end, who will make the journey to America and who will be left behind, stay with us.

WALTERS: So the man the orphans call Johnny has returned to Romania determined to rescue as many of the children that he can from that miserable existence, but the bureaucratic roadblocks, as you saw, are just overwhelming. The Government that still can’t care for it’s own children makes it extremely difficult for John Upton to help. And while John Upton struggles with the system, the children wait, their hearts and faces full of hope.

JARRIEL: Although this is John Upton's first trip back here in two years, word has spread throughout the Institution that Johnny has come to take more children to America. Hopes are soaring. Twelve-year-old Marin Moldovan pleads for what every kid in this place is dreaming of.

MARIN MOLDOVAN: Johnny [Romanian] America?

JARRIEL: Take me to America.

Mr. UPTON: How do you say, "I'll try." [Repeats in Romanian]

JARRIEL: It seems every child here knows a lucky few will be getting out of this place.

ROMANIAN CHILD: You Johnny?

Mr. UPTON: I'm Johnny, that's right.

JARRIEL: You've become a Pied Piper to these kids. Do you worry that you may have over promised them?

Mr. UPTON: All the time. That's the pressure, because it's easy to be anonymous and to send a check and to keep your distance, but I've crossed that line, and some kids are going to get left behind, and that's going to be tough. But it's not going to be because of me.

JARRIEL: Inside the Institution, Upton confronts another complication. In the same room with the most profoundly disabled children we find two teenage girls who seem glaringly out of place. Because of their appearance, we had initially mistaken them as staff aides, helping out with the younger children. We were stunned to discover they were patients. [interviewing a translator] Why is she here?  Epilepsy?

JARRIEL: An easily treatable condition is the only reason 18-year-old Violetta is here. [ interviewing] Would you like to leave here if another home could be found for you?

INTERPRETER: [interpreting] She would like that very much if she could be adopted.

JARRIEL: After your parents died. who raised your? Seventeen-year-old Sanda says her grandfather grew too old to care for her and sent her here, thinking it was a school. Upton immediately resolves to add these two girls to his list. The obvious problem, can he find their parents and obtains all the paperwork he needs?

Mr. UPTON: (conferring with his staff) All right, so first you’re  going to go here to Gurla for the grandfather and then go down to Cluj.

JARRIEL: Upton recruits a freelance photographer and a young doctor to drive to the distant village of Turda to find Violetta's parents. Sanda's grandfather is said to live on the way. The search takes two days, over unmarked roads, stopping time after time to ask if anyone knows where the families live. When they arrive at Sanda's grandfather's, they are told he has moved. He now lives five hours in the other direction. They travel on to Turda and begin the difficult task of searching the dark hallways of apartment buildings for Violetta’s family. Finally, at 11:00 P.M., they find them. The parents sign documents for their daughter to go to America. The next day, Sanda's grandfather gives his permission with a notarized fingerprint. Upton's impulsive gamble has paid off. Another decision is upon him, what to do about Elena? He has finally gotten the paperwork he needs, but she's still out of control. Upton fears the long trip will be impossible in her current state.

Mr. UPTON: I hope that I'm doing the right thing by taking her out of here. Is it more cruel to take her out and to introduce her to a new environment, or is it more cruel to leave her here? I don't know. I'm really having difficulty with this now. (To Elena… Upton has calmed her down and she responds to him) There you go, that's better. That's better.

JARRIEL: (voice-over) Hours later, Upton finally manages to break through to Elena.

Mr. UPTON:  I don't know what kind of life she's going to lead. I don't know if she's ever going to be quote "normal" unquote. But I know that responds to kindness and that she shouldn't have to be scooting around on the floor, and I know that we can help her somehow. Elena was the reason why I came.

JARRIEL: (the next day, Upton pulls up to the Institute and gets out of his vehicle)  It was time to go. [Interviewing] John, you've worked a long time toward this day.

Mr. UPTON: Two years. Now's the moment.

JARRIEL: Are you anxious?

Mr. UPTON: Now's the moment.

JARRIEL: You have your records and files and information?

Mr. UPTON: I've got my records, I'm ready to go.

JARRIEL: The rescue effort has dragged on too long. Upton decides this is the day he must leave or risk losing it all. First stop, the director's office. In order to take the children out, he must get her signature on all the documents. Although the papers are in order, there's no guarantee the director will sign them. In fact, she can't be found.

Mr. UPTON: Why isn't she here, though!

ORPHANAGE WORKER: I don't know, I don't know.

Mr. UPTON: She knew we were coming.

ORPHANAGE WORKER: I don't know.

JARRIEL: Upton suspects the director is deliberately staying away to foil his plans

Mr. UPTON: I'm going to take the kids, I'm going to put them in the car, and I'm going. (walks into a room crowded with hopeful children) Hello.

JARRIEL: Upton decides it's time to cut and run, with no one in charge, he takes matters into his own hands and announces the news to the kids waiting to find out if they'll stay behind or go. It's the most difficult moment of all.

Mr. UPTON: Today I will take some of you, but some of you some of you must stay here. Now, I'm going to call some names and I want -when I call your name, for you to stand up, okay? Janina.

JARRIEL: Out of this crowded room, only five names will be called. Upton tries to conceal his disappointment. He had hoped for many more.

Mr. UPTON: Anna Ramona, Christian, Ileana, Christina Babushi. Now these are the children I can take today.

JARRIEL: Little Marin, (sobbing), his heart filled with hope, suddenly he realizes he's being left behind.

Mr. UPTON: I have a place for Marin, he stays here not because I’m unable to help him…it's because I'm not allowed to. [to Marin] It's okay, it's okay.

INTERPRETER: He's asking if you're going to take him to America.

Mr. UPTON: Not today, but I'm going to take him someday.

JARRIEL: Obviously, they want to go so badly.

Mr. UPTON: (on the verge of tears) Yeah, and I know, but…

JARRIEL: And you can't walk away from them.

Mr. UPTON: I can't. I can't. And I won't. (to children) Come on, put your shoes on.

JARRIEL: While the children pack their meager possessions, Upton is confronted by a group of visiting nurses who challenge his authority to take the kids.

Mr. UPTON: Why are these people trying to interfere with me taking them to America?

VISITING NURSE: No, it's not normal to…

Mr. UPTON: What's not normal?

NURSE:  To take the children from here without speaking to the authorities.

Mr. UPTON: What people! Do you think that I would just take a child without speaking to anybody! Is this any of your business! Do you work here! [ to Jarriel] I've been frustrated, I get angry. I just want to get these kids out. I had Elena in my arms...It's been two years, and those last minutes, it was just hell, and I was really sweating bullets at that point in time. (He walks out of the Institution holding hands with the children he is taking) I will be back, okay! Be good. Be good. Okay, bye-bye. Let's go.

JARRIEL: This is Upton's reward for two years of hard work. He marches out with a ragged band of children, now knowing if he'll be permitted to come back here to get the kids he's had to leave behind. (Marin clings to him and is sobbing)

Mr. UPTON: Hold hands, come on. Come on, let's go.

JARRIEL: The kids head for freedom. They place their total confidence in him, leaving behind the only place they've ever known for the uncertainties of a country they know only as a word, America. The nurses realize the children wont be coming back.

Mr. UPTON (to Elena)- It's okay, it's okay. ( to Jarriel ) I finally had this kid in my arms and I'm ready to put her in the van and take her to America.

JARRIEL: In all, he'll be taking nine children, half the number he had planned. The staff crowded together outside, uncertain how to react to Upton's unorthodox exodus with the children. As Upton and the kids pull away in the little red van, familiar voices cry out to him.

CHILDREN: Johnny! Johnny!

JARRIEL: (shot of Upton and group pulling into a luxury hotel in London) They arrived bewildered and exhausted, and stepped into the lap of luxury. Seven-year-old Christian was fascinated by the automatic doors. They led to a world unlike any he had ever seen.

Mr. UPTON: Within the span of 24 hours they went from being in a prison to being in a hot bubble bath. I knew that they didn't know that they were in a beautiful five-star hotel, but I knew they were happy.

JARRIEL: The next morning, boxes of donated clothes arrived. Remember, these kids left Romania with only the clothes they were wearing. The lavish hotel lobby became a public dressing room, the children stripping to their underwear as they rummage through the boxes.

ENGLISH RELIEF WORKER: It's lovely to see. I wouldn't have believed a few clothes could make children as happy as it has made these. And to see children like this, it's heartbreaking.

JARRIEL: The final leg of their journey began at London's Heathrow Airport. Upton had convinced Richard Branson, the head of Virgin Airlines, to fly the kids to the United States for free. They landed at the Los Angeles International Airport and boarded a bus for San Diego.

Mr. UPTON: San

CHILDREN : San.

Mr. UPTON: Di

CHILDREN: Di

Mr. UPTON: ego

CHILDREN: ego

Mr. UPTON: San Diego.

CHILDREN: San Diego.

CHILD: Izidor coming! Izidor coming!

Mr. UPTON: Yeah, Izidor’s in here. Look, everybody's there!

JARRIEL: Their first stop was a surprise reunion with the five children who had gotten out of Sighteu two years ago, familiar faces in their strange new world. The kids from Romania had a surprise for their friend Izidor, the boy who had prodded and pushed John Upton into going back to rescue his friends. They had written a song for him. [Children singing]

JARRIEL: Elena is now in a San Diego hospital. A team of surgeons has volunteered their services to try to correct her twisted leg. The other children were flown to Norfolk, Virginia, where foster families who hope to ultimately adopt these kids were waiting.

FOSTER MOTHER: Christian, look. Daddy.

 CHRISTIAN: Daddy.

FOSTER MOTHER: Papa.

JARRIEL: As for Upton, last month he succeeded in getting 10 more kids out, but 12-year-old Marin remains at Sighteu.

Mr. UPTON: I cannot get him out the way the system is now, but he doesn't understand the system. All he understands is that I'm taking his friends out, why can't I take him out?

DOWNS: Oh. God.

WALTERS: Because they can't find his parents?

JARRIEL: Right.

WALTERS: (visibly shaken) I have to get control of myself. It's the first time…you start.

DOWNS: Okay. You know, why is it up to a guy like John Upton, now, I think it’s wonderful what he’s doing… but is there no way to get cooperation of the government over there?

JARRIEL: Hugh, the rules on adoption in Romania have made it more difficult than ever to adopt children there. And of course John Upton is not the answer he's but one man. He says himself he's not an adoption agency, he's doing the best he can as an individual. It's a much bigger and broader problem than just he can handle.

DOWNS: Is it possible there could be enough outrage internationally that pressure could be brought on the government to change those rules!

JARRIEL: Well, it's the system that has these children caught up. It's the system John and others and parents who go to try to adopt that are fighting. Until that system which is set up by the Romanian government is changed, things won't change. And certainly international pressure might bring it about.

WALTERS: Okay, I've pulled myself together. This is the first time that I saw this piece. There will be people who will want to adopt children, and you say international pressure. They can't go over now and start struggling with all of this?

JARRIEL: No.

WALTERS: But what can they do? I mean…is this a matter of calling a Senator...Is that too small?  What do you do? Call  a Congressman?

JARRIEL: Any pressure that might come from the United States Government, from business people, anything that might cause the Romanian government to say, "Look, we've settled on a system that the world says is not acceptable."

WALTERS: The idea that parents abandon children and then won't leave word where they are or put them up or allow them to get out of that terrible place.

JARRIEL: Unless the parents sign, under the present system, they can't get out. That's why Marin is stuck.

WALTERS: And Marin will stay there.

JARRIEL: Yeah, and others like him.

DOWNS: Yes. Thank you, Tom.

Update #1 (one week later)

BARBARA WALTERS: We're going to come back and talk to Tom about the Romanian story and the children that he did last week, wait till you hear what's happened.

HUGH DOWNS: Last week we aired the sixth of our very emotional reports on abandoned children trapped in Romania. Tom Jarriel told us about the heroic trip that a private citizen named John Upton made to one institution, to rescue children Romania considers to be "unsalvagable" because of their medical problems. But the plight of these children is so desperate that the Epic Health Care Group is pledging to take in every youngster that Upton brings out of that institution. It's already taken in more than a dozen Romanian children, and this week, because of our report, Congressman Richard Pombo of California raised the subject of these abandoned children during a speech on the floor of the U.S. House.

POMBO: Millions of Americans watched last Friday night as ABC's 20/20 aired the heart breaking story about Romania's so called "Unsalvagable Children", Today I am proud to introduce a resolution calling on the government of Romania to allow the most desperate of these children to come to America for the help they so urgently need.

  HUGH DOWNS: We've also received hundreds of phone calls and letters, people asking, "How can we help?" And what they wanted to know most about was, remember the little boy Marin that Upton was forced to leave behind, that's haunted me all week. Tom is back with us now and I understand that you have some news on that front that will make us all feel much better.

  TOM JARRIEL: Absolutely Hugh. Mr. Munteanu. who is the Romanian Ambassador to the U.S. has made a personal pledge to get Marin to the United States for medical care and for a good family. That's expected to take place as early as next week.

  HUGH DOWNS: That's great!

  BARBARA WALTERS: You know Tom, we do so many reports on 20/20 and sometimes you think, "Oh it doesn't make a difference", but you've been to Romania so many times now, you and producer Janice Tomlin, and ah, it did make a difference.

  TOM JARRIEL: It's beginning to make a lot of difference.

  BARBARA WALTERS: So, you know, we're very proud of you both. What about the other children?

  TOM JARRIEL: Uh, once the government changes their policies, door would certainly be open.

  BARBARA WALTERS: So maybe all the children would get out?

  HUGH DOWNS: That's marvelous. Thank you Tom

 

Update #2

  BARBARA WALTERS, Tonight we have news. You may recall our update last month on the efforts of American John Upton to rescue Romanian children. And we told you in particular about Marin, the child Upton was forced to leave behind because of government red tape, and that the Romanian Ambassador to the United States had made a personal pledge to get Marin to America, so it seemed like a happy ending to a heart breaking story. And in fact there was more good news, Actress Jessica Lange, who had watched our report, decided herself to go to Romania with John Upton to rescue Marin. But the story took a sad and frustrating turn. Lange and Upton were turned away at the institution. Romanian officials had decided that Marin could not leave with the two Americans who had come to rescue him.

  JESSICA LANGE: One government has to talk to another, it has to become a political issue. Because you're not going to be able to do it "personally" like John's done it before.

BARBARA WALTERS: Well next week Jessica Lange will try to make it a political issue. She will be in Washington with John Upton trying to enlist Congress in the fight for the abandoned Romanian children. They also plan a news conference to outline their course of action. The future of many children is at stake. We'll be right back.

Update #3

BARBARA WALTERS: Now an update that we know many of you have been waiting to hear. It's about Marin, the twelve year old Romanian boy whose dream of coming to America has been repeatedly dashed for more than two years. As Tom Jarriel reported, each time American John Upton traveled to Romania to rescue these abandoned children, Marin had to be left behind because of government red tape. But Upton and his supporters persisted. And just this afternoon this was the scene at Kennedy Airport in New York. Young Marin and Anna, another Romanian child from the same institution were welcomed to America by Actress Jessica Lange and Tennessee Congressman Bart Gordon, both of whom were instrumental in winning the children's release. Six year old Anna will undergo medical treatment in Virginia (and be cared for by of Jessica Lange.). As for Marin, tomorrow he flies to San Diego for medical care and for a reunion with John Upton and the Romanian children who came here before him. Good news. And we will keep you posted on their progress. We'll be right back.

  Update #4

  ANNOUNCER: The children that touched your hearts. For three years we brought you their stories from Romania. They were forgotten...neglected...called "Unsalvagable". But you didn't believe it. Tonight, on Christmas Eve, you'll see what love can do. Their faces tell the story of their new lives with caring families.

  BARBARA WALTERS: Finally a story that has become a benchmark in the history of 20/20. The forgotten children of Romania. We followed this story for four years, returning five times to Romania to expose their desperate situation. They became everybody's children. You took them into your hearts and some of them into your homes. And tonight we add another chapter to their story. On this Christmas Eve let Tom Jarriel show you the transforming power of love.

  TOM JARRIEL: Four years ago the world was stunned to learn that tens of thousands of children were being warehoused in Romanian orphanages. 20/20 has been reporting on the plight of these children from the beginning. Those hopeless faces we saw in the institution for the so called "Unsalvagable Children" at Sighetu Marmatiei. One of them was ten year old Anna. She and four other children were taken in by families from a church group in Virginia.

  LINDA: For us it means a sense of completeness. Umm we're a family now.

TOM JARRIEL: Linda and Joe of Virginia had their dream of a family come true. Thanks to a couple of kids from Sighetu.

LINDA: Well they're very special. And after being in what we knew to be a very horrible environment, they were ready to love us and accept us and be a part of our family. And it hasn't been easy but they've taught me how to love and how to give.

TOM JARRIEL: Eight year old Christian has become a choir boy. Rambunctious and happy. Remember little Marin Moldovan? Oh the hearts that went out to him when he was left behind. This Christmas,  Marin has a family in California.

TOM JARRIEL: Remember the three musketeers we met at Sighetu Marmatiei? Well they now live in the same neighborhood in San Diego and are still the best of friends. Fifteen year old Christina loves to sing. Twelve year old Ciprian can't stop riding his bicycle. And thirteen year old Isador has become the All-American baseball player.

  ADOPTIVE PARENT: I think everything's changed for them. It's opened up a whole new world. Where they were confined before now they have freedoms and choices and chances to become something and do things that they never had the chance to do before. They don't have limits now.

  HUGH DOWNS:(laughing)...isn't it great!

  BARBARA WALTERS: Smiling with tears in their eyes, ah!

  HUGH DOWNS: Doing, doing well. That's great. I think the children still in Romania should not be forgotten.

  BARBARA WALTERS: And we should point out that it's very difficult still to be able to adopt them. Would that they could all be in families like that.

  HUGH DOWNS: But you know the powerful good heartedness of some people, it's really something, and the response of  the children too, it's something to reflect on right now during the Christmas Season.

 

           

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